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I have a confession to make.

I’ve been feeling burned out lately.

This has been a glorious year of ministry: campus work, the new book, expansions in the radio ministry, etc. But it has also been a challenging year—funny how “success” and trials often go together.

Exactly what has caused the burnout? I’m not really sure. But I have a few ideas:

*First and foremost, I’ve had to make some tough ministry decisions this year. I’m at peace with these decisions, but getting there has been a long, exhausting process. Sorry for not going into more detail, but it’s for the best.

*This has been a very busy year—balancing several new ministry opportunities. I think I kind of hit a “wall” last month after February (my busiest month).

*Financial stress. God is faithful, and I’ve never once had to really worry about where my next meal is coming from. But like everyone else, I am affected by the current economic climate.

*It’s hot. Really hot.

I’m praying my visit home will be a time to recharge.

Here's a promotional video CSM did. Feel free to pass it around.

Anyone remember the story of Alfie Patten, the so-called "13-year-old father?"

I wrote my thoughts on this last February, expressing skepticism and sadness about the story. 

Turns out I was right, but the truth is still tragic.  DNA test revealed the child's father is Tyler Barker, age 14 (at the time of the child's birth--he was only 13 at the time of the child's conception). 

You can read the whole story HERE.

I realize this is "old news."  I meant to write about it back when I first followed up.  But I bet many of you have forgotten about it. 

I just want to encourage everyone to think about two things:

1. The consequences of premarital sex are very real.

2. Not every sensational story you read is true.

My friend Mari Ann (aka "Mariah") was kind enough to write a review of my new book.  Check it out, and visit her other blog posts while you are there:

A Woman with a Mission: Learning the Hard Way Review

Here's a song from Tyrone Wells called When All is Said and Done.  He wrote this while thinking about his own mortality and meeting Jesus one day. 

Thought-provoking lyrics and great music!



Here's Tyrone's official website:
http://www.tyronewells.com/

This coming Saturday morning (April 24th) will be my last speaking engagement before I visit the States. 

The City of Tagaytay is promoting a series of monthly meetings with a "City of Character" as the theme.
 
This month they are focusing on forgiveness and compassion, so I'll be preparing a message related to these (maybe a message on the life of the Old Testament Joseph, but not sure).  The venue will be one of the sports arenas, so it looks like it will be a large group.

Please pray for me as I prepare this message.  Pray that Christ will be glorified and lives changed.

Hey guys,

There are still a few contributors I have not heard from.  I want to make good on my promise to give you a copy of the book, but I don't have any way to get in touch with you. 

Here are the contributors I haven't been able to contact--a listing of the stories and the titles I gave them:

Life After Abortion
This is is a story of a young woman who went overseas (OFW), got pregnant, and decided to get an abortion after returning to the Philippines.

Is She Pregnant?
This young man became sexually involved with his girlfriend and spent some sleepless nights wondering if she was pregnant.

Pregnant and Abandoned
The story of a woman who is raising her son by herself after being abandoned by her boyfriend.  This is the only contribution from a Westerner (non-Filipino).


Dangerously Close
A student gets physically and emotionally intimate with her high school crush after they graduate.  But they only have an "MU" relationship.  The relationship lasted for years and she was "dangerously close" to giving him everything.

Here are some contributors I don't think I've heard from but I'm not sure (can't remember):

Choosing Blindness
A young woman decides to stay in a relationship even though she sees clear evidence he is already married.

The Doomed Office Romance
A Filipina entertains an older Western man despite the fact that he is 100% pure jerk.


If you contributed one of these stories, please get in touch with me.  Email (re-send) the original story to me to verify you are the one who sent it. 

To our Baguio Listeners,

Just wanted you to know that The Edge Radio is temporarily off the air in Baguio.  Apparently there are some issues with licensing, but the the management is working on it.  They are hoping to be back by May (or June-July at the latest).   We look forward to being on the air again soon once The Edge hits the airwaves again.

May 22, 2010

Saturday, 8:00 AM to 4:00 PM
International Baptist Church Makati

140 HV Dela Costa Cor. Tordesillas, Salcedo, Makati

Speakers and Topics:

CORY VARELA- A Woman and Her God

MALOI MALIBIRAN-SALUMBIDES- A Woman and Her Workplace

BESSIE RIOS- A Woman and Her Children

EVELYN RAMOS-PAJARON- A Woman and Her Teens

also featuring the launch of:
"Women of Worth" and "Women of Significance"
(26 2-volume paperback edition of "Walking On: The Best of Women on the Journey")

TICKET PRICE: P200
available at select PCBS branches in Metro Manila
(first 200 ticket holders will receive a free "W@W!" Book! Call 8510521 & 25)

for more info call 8510521 & 25

As you can see, I've decided to change the look of my blog a little.  I still have a few adjustments to make, but I like this new template so far.  What I'm trying to do is simplify things just a little--I felt like my blog was too "busy" with too much information (links, etc).

One of the most unfortunate consequences of sexual immorality is sexually transmitted diseases (STD's).  I'd like you to share a few facts about genital herpes, one of the most common STD's.

Genital herpes is caused by the herpes simplex virus and is transmitted through sexual activity.  It causes blisters or groups of open sores (ulcers) around the genital area of both men and women.  It is highly contagious, and carriers can transmit the disease without even knowing they have it.  There is no cure for genital herpes--medications only treat outbreaks and minimize the symptoms.

Here are a few statistics from America:

*Approximately 1 in 6 (16%) of all Americans age 14-49 are infected with the Herpes virus.

*Approximately one million new infections occur each year.

*The Center for Disease Control (CDC) estimates that more than 80% of people with genital herpes do not even know they are infected.

As you can see, my country is reaping a terrible harvest due to our sexual laxity.  

The Philippines:

I'm having trouble finding good statistics on the Philippines, but one study I found showed about 9% of middle-aged women were infected with HSV-2 (one of the herpes viruses).

I want to make something else clear here: I've been discussing genital herpes, but this virus can also be transmitted through oral sex. 



Herpes is a life-long, incurable disease--a disease you can avoid by obeying God and saving sex for marriage.

Here's a Phil Collins classic.

This week we have a very special episode of Basta LoveLife.   I interview "Clark," the young man who wrote Living with HIV  (the last story Learning the Hard Way).  Hear how he found true hope in Jesus Christ. 

Just go to the podcast page (http://kuyakevin.libsyn.com) to listen.  You can also find it on iTunes by searching for Basta LoveLife.

There are a couple of links I mention in the interview:

Bagong Pag-Asa: a ministry for those struggling with same-sex attraction.

Dr. Elroi's Blog:  this is "Clark's" blog.  In case you are wondering, "Clark" and "Dr Elroi" are both false names.

Have you read Learning the Hard Way?  Do you have a blog?

Write your review for my book and get traffic to your blog.  Each week I'll make a post linking to new reviews of my book.  You'll get traffic when my readers visit your blog.

If you'd like to see a sample review just check out the one on Thess' blog  But your review doesn't have to look like hers--just be yourself and tell us your thoughts and reactions.

Hey guys,
I have some exciting news--the radio ministry is expanding!

Here's the short version of the story:

I met with Jim Reyes of Trans World Radio (TWR) a couple of weeks ago to discuss how we could partner together for the sake of the ministry.  He asked me to record some short (one or five minute) segments about purity and relationships--shorter versions of what we do on the Basta LoveLife show.  God willing, these segments will be playing on TWR's (120+) subscriber stations in May.

Note: for any of you in the radio business, just contact Trans World Radio to subscribe to these upcoming segments.

Here's the information on Passion Manila 2010:

Passion is coming back!

Passion Conference 2010 Live at the Araneta Coliseum on May 25, 2010 7:30PM

Calling this generation of young people committed to glorify God!
This is a rare chance for tens of thousands of young people ages
16-25 to gather at Araneta Coliseum on May 25, 2010 to celebrate their common faith and purpose.

 Featuring: Louie Giglio, Kristian Stanfill and Chris Tomlin - PASSION Conference 2010

Join us! Get your tickets now for only P200 in all sections. Patron section will be opened first so if you want the best seats in the house, buy now!

Patron, Lower box and Upper Box A tickets are available ONLY at Becca Music office. Call now! 910.5524 or 910.5352.

Upper Box B and General Admission tickets are available at all Ticketnet outlets. Call 911.5555.

Note:
I won't be able to make this one because I'll be in the States.  But I had the opportunity to be there last time and it was an awesome experience.  I think tickets are selling out quickly, so don't delay if you are planning on attending.

In this week's episode:

*Should a Christian date an unbeliever?

*Dealing with sexual thoughts/fantasies.

*I'm 30, and my ex boyfriend and I are still close.  I'm wondering if we should try again and if I should make the first move.

Just go to the podcast page (kuyakevin.lybsyn.com) to download or look up Basta LoveLife in iTunes.  This podcast is 100% free.